Apr 09 2014
Seven years in the 'hobby'...
It seems that everyone has been getting on me to write. Some of you still inquire about the roving eyes blog and others I've written, but they are on my old site, and it won't come up for some reason! So here goes... This is something I shared recently, so I will share it with you- I sit, read, and ponder how different things are now. It was just today that I realized that seven years have passed since I'd entered the 'hobby'. While I did take some breaks due to work conflicts and even tried my hand at a couple times at serious relationships, I think that I've seen it all. What's really changed? There was a sense of the hobby being like a secret club. That we all supported each other and enjoyed our secret life that no one else knew about. Conversations and threads were fun, and never abusive. And it really made the whole experience better. It was a relaxed, positive setting where people could be themselves. I prefer to think of providing, when done correctly, as a centering, relaxing, healing experience to all parties concerned. Yes, I'm saying that the best providers are healers. Their sense of compassion and kindness is heightened, as they give something that is hard to come by these days, and it's not sex. It's the feeling, the touch, and the attention that we all crave. You need it, I need it, we all need it. But sadly this society doesn't encourage it, especially when it comes to men. Hats off to all the wonderful providers here that realize this, and that sensuality beats sexuality every time. By making someone's life better, we do the same for ourselves. I have thoroughly enjoyed the time that I've spent here and with my friends and look forward to many more. Happy Hobby Birthday to me! :)